Hard Topics: Talking to Kids About Immigration and Deportation + Booklist

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Immigrant children are already living the current reality of the United States, and those of us who are not as directly effected need to still be discussing these horrific current events with our children.

These kids are seeing parents disappear into detention. They are living with the knowledge that they themselves might end up in a detention center, deported, or separated from loved ones. They are hearing adults whisper about raids. They are learning (far too early) that the systems meant to protect people often don’t protect families like theirs.

And when we choose not to teach our own children about the facts around immigration and deportation because it feels “too political” or “too heavy,” that choice comes from privilege.

Avoiding a topic that is actively harming millions of families does not make children safer. It simply keeps some children comfortable while others carry the weight alone.

Children are capable of learning about injustice in an age appropriate manner.

Silence Is Not Neutral

If your child is not directly impacted by immigration enforcement, that is not a reason to stay silent. It is a reason to speak out

Not teaching your child about immigration and deportation:

  • Assumes harm is acceptable as long as it doesn’t affect your family.
  • Treats immigrant children’s lives as “too uncomfortable” to discuss.
  • Reinforces the idea that injustice is normal and unchangeable.

Children do not need legal details. They need truth.

A justice-centered explanation sounds like this:

“Some families are being hurt by unfair rules. Those rules are made by people, and people can change them.”

That message builds empathy and accountability.

Who Is It Safe to Talk About This With?

This part matters, especially for immigrant families and mixed-status households.

Children should know:

  • It is safe to talk about immigration at home and with caregivers who respect their family.
  • Not all adults are safe to share personal information with.
  • They never need to explain their family’s story to strangers.

You can say:

“Some people don’t understand or aren’t kind about this topic. We share our thoughts with people who listen and care.”

Look for the Helpers and Teach Resistance

Social justice education does not stop at naming harm. It shows children that people are fighting back.

Help kids notice:

  • Community members who protect families.
  • People who speak up.
  • Organizers, lawyers, and everyday people doing quiet, brave work.

You can tell them:

“Even when rules are unfair, people work together to protect each other.”

This shifts the narrative from helplessness to collective power.

These are organizations that are actively working to defend immigrant families, support children facing deportation, and push for systemic change. They offer legal aid, community organizing, and advocacy. They need allies, volunteers, and supporters to keep fighting.

Picture Books That Help Open These Conversations

Stories allow children to process injustice safely while seeing dignity, courage, and resistance reflected back.

Here are powerful picture books and children’s texts that support social justice centered conversations about immigration and deportation

Book cover of 'Something Happened to My Dad' featuring a mother and daughter in a garden setting, with butterflies, illustrating themes of immigration and family separation.

Something Happened to My Dad: A Story About Immigration and Family Seperation by Anne Hazzard and Vivanne Aponte Rivera Illustrated by Gloria Felix

Cover of the book 'Until Someone Listens' featuring a young girl looking determined, surrounded by microphones and reporters, against a warm orange background. The title and authors' names are prominently displayed.

Until Someone Listens by Estela Juarez with Lissette Norman, Illustrated by Teresa Martinez

Illustration from the book 'Dreamers' by Yuyi Morales, featuring a mother holding a baby with vibrant floral and butterfly elements in a colorful background.

Dreamers by Yuyi Morales

Cover of 'Mama's Nightingale: A Story of Immigration and Separation' featuring a mother and daughter holding a birdcage, with colorful illustrations of flowers and nightingale birds.

Mama’s Nightingale by Edwidge Danticat

Book cover for 'Marwan's Journey' by Patricia de Arias and Laura Borràs, featuring an illustrated child sitting on a suitcase surrounded by various pieces of luggage.

Marwan’s Journey by Patricia de Arias, illustrated by Laura Borras

Illustration depicting a worried girl with long hair, surrounded by a border landscape featuring barriers and silhouettes of people. Text reads 'Hear My Voice: The Testimonies of Children Detained at the Southern Border of the United States.'

Hear My Voice compiled by Warren Binford for Project Amplify

Cover of 'The Notebook Keeper' by Stephen Briseño & Magdalena Mora, featuring three characters looking up at a colorful sky with a border fence in the background.

The Notebook Keeper by Stephen Briseño, illustrated by Magdalena Mora

Cover of the children's book 'I Wish You Knew' featuring a father and daughter sitting on a giant sunflower, with illustrations of children playing on other sunflowers in the background.

I Wish You Knew by Jackie Azua Kramer, illustrated by Magdalena Mora

Cover of the book 'La Frontera - My Journey with Papa' featuring a man and child walking together, with a colorful landscape in the background.

La Frontera El viaje con papa My Journey with Papa by Debora Mills, Alfredo Alva, Claudia Navarro

Cover of the book 'Mango Moon' featuring a young girl with long dark hair looking thoughtfully towards a large glowing moon, surrounded by a starry sky and greenery.

Mango Moon by Diane de Anda, illustrated by Sue Cornelison

Middle Grade Books and Graphic Novels

Illustration of a young girl at a front desk holding a telephone, in a colorful setting with a clock, calendar, and key hooks in the background. The title 'FRONT DESK' by Kelly Yang is prominently displayed.

Front Desk by Kelly Yang. This is an entire series. She also has a book called Finally Seen that would also be good.

Cover of 'Land of the Cranes' by Aida Salazar, featuring a young girl with long hair gazing through a chain-link fence, surrounded by flying cranes and a colorful sky.

Land of the Cranes by Aida Salazar

Cover of the book 'Other Words for Home' by Jasmine Warga, featuring an illustration of a young girl in a hijab, with a cityscape in the background and a Newbery Honor seal.

Other Words for Home by Jasmine Warga

Cover of the graphic novel 'Refugee' by Alan Gratz, featuring a young boy in a small boat navigating turbulent seas under a stormy sky.

Refugee by Alan Gratz

Cover illustration of the graphic novel 'Illegal' by Eoin Colfer and Andrew Donkin, featuring a crowded boat on tumultuous seas under a starry night sky with a full moon.

Illegal by Eoin Colfer

Cover of the graphic novel 'When Stars Are Scattered' featuring two young boys walking in a desolate landscape under a starry sky, with trees and tents in the background.

When Stars Are Scattered by Victoria Jamieson

Cover of the graphic novel 'They Called Us Enemy' by George Takei, featuring a line of people, including a young boy, waiting in front of a soldier and barbed wire fences.

They Called Us Enemy by George Takei. This book is about the Japanese Intermittent camps during World War II. It helps us see that the problem isn’t just centered around immigrates, but on those deemed as “different”.

Book cover featuring the title 'Frontera' with an illustration of a young man in a hoodie and a ghostly cowboy figure, set against a colorful background.

Frontera by Julio Anto

A colorful comic book cover featuring the Statue of Liberty and an ocean liner, titled 'Ellis Island: Immigration and the American Dream,' showcasing diverse characters in period clothing.

History Comic Ellis Island

YA Books and Graphic Novels

Book cover for 'Living Beyond Borders: Growing Up Mexican in America', edited by Margarita Longoria. The cover features vibrant illustrations with elements representing Mexican culture and identity.

Living Beyond Borders: Growing Up Mexican in America by Margarita Longoria

Cover of the graphic novel 'Displacement' by Kiku Hughes, featuring two characters in a desolate landscape with a watchtower and barbed wire. The title is prominently displayed at the top.

Displacement by Kiku Hughes

Cover of the graphic novel 'Just Another Story' by Ernesto Saade, illustrating a group of young people walking together, with an airplane in the sky above them.

Just Another Story by Ernesto Saade

Book cover for 'Unaccompanied: Stories of Brave Teenagers Seeking Asylum' by Tracy White, featuring a silhouette of a running teenager surrounded by tropical foliage against a starry night background.

Unaccompanied: Stories of Brave Teenagers Seeking Asylum by Tracy White.
This one does showcase teens who have strong support and access to social services which isn’t the norm, but it does a good job in showing various reasons for immigration.

Cover of 'The Complete Persepolis' by Marjane Satrapi, featuring a red background with illustrated characters in black and white, depicting themes of struggle and identity.

The Complete Persepolis by Marjane Satrapi

Cover of the book 'The Unwanted: Stories of the Syrian Refugees' by Don Brown, featuring illustrations of various individuals behind a fence, symbolizing the plight of Syrian refugees.

The Unwanted: Stories of the Syrian Refugees by Don Brown

Cover of the book 'WORM: A Cuban American Odyssey' by Edel Rodriguez, featuring an illustration of a young boy in a red hat and shirt with a star, framed by decorative vertical bands.

Worm: A Cuban American Odyssey by Edel Rodriguez

Final Thought

Teaching children about immigration and deportation is imparative.

It is about:

  • Naming injustice
  • Refusing silence
  • Teaching children that harm is not inevitable
  • Showing them that people organize, resist, and care for one another

Children are not too young to learn about justice.
They are only too young to carry it alone.

Is there books you would add to this? Let me know in the comments!

Selene in cursive

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